Being happy is something we all want and crave for. Being happy doesn't mean everything is perfect. it means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections. Don't wait for the storm to pass, you have to learn to dance in the rain. I think it's a wonderful way to live from day to day, instead of being down about a situation and waiting for it to get better to be happy, enjoy life. Know that god is in control and will take care of today and tomorrow, so don't worry.. dance, and celebrate everyday you have. We all can let life's craziness get the best of us, I am one who forgets that being happy is the most important thing in the world. I sometimes let life's stress get me down and ruin my spirits. and I have to remind myself that I could be a hell of alot worse than I am. I have this quote I came accross:
Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin!
It makes perfect sense to me, when we try to be so careful in our day to day decisions, sometimes we tend to overlook what might make us truly happy, I don't never want to look back and say "I wish i would have" , live for today because you never know what tomorrow brings.
I too want to be "Happy" and sometimes im so hard on myself believing just because I may not have a spouse or be married, or have this or that, that I am not happy. But when I actually sit back and think about my situation I can't be anything but Happy. I have two great kids that are my world, I have a roof over me and my childrens heads and I am able to provide for us which there are alot of people in the world who can't do that. I have a job in todays recession, I have family, great friends, what more can I ask for. I too need to remind myself of the "little" things that makes my life happy rather than focusing on what I think are the "bigger" things to make me happy. God knows what he has in store for me and I need to just continue to put it in his hands and have him continue to guide me.
When it comes to friendships or relationships I give it my all. When I love, I love hard and when I trust it means something. I have learned in my lifetime that everyone doesnt have good intentions for you from the gate. so it took alot of failed relationships or friendships for me to get thicker skin and wise up.. But when it comes to loving someone no matter what the relationship is.. I still love hard. and my friends say all the time I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve which I do, and thats just me i have a big heart, One of my biggest problems when it comes to love is letting my emotions get the best of me, and with that said I tend to gradually and slowly push the people I care for away.. Im not perfect and im only human and I too am working on my imperfections but someone once said, that love is not about finding the perfect person, it is about learning to see an imperfect person perfectly!
Til next time
xoxo
