have you ever felt so strongly about someone whenever you think about them its like you can see stars and hearts? Or have this feeling about the person as if you have butterflies in your stomache. Thats where I am at with this guy I am talking to. We have been talking for like 9 months and he makes me feel so good inside. We had a instant connection when meeting eachother I am not gonna lie. I knew he was gonna be different and I knew god brought him into my life for a reason. I had just gotten out of a really bad relationship a year prior to meeting him and I was going on dates with alot of men that didn't have my best interest at heart.
I have fought this feeling for sometime now, telling myself Evoney you haven't known him that long you can't possibly love him but I knew I felt differently about him, I knew no other guy I was coming into contact with made me feel the way I do when I am with him. So what is a girl to do? He's not ready to be in a committed relationship, not that he wouldn't want to be with me but he wants to have his career in order and finances first so he can concentrate on his love life. I myself don't know 100% if I am ready for a relationship, all I know is I need him in my life and I don't want to be without him.
So is it possible for someone to fall in love with someone in such a small amount of time? Do you have to know them completely to know you love them?
To me everything in life happens for a reason and people are in your life for a reason whether its a reason, season or a lifetime. you just have to determine what aspect in your life they are. I am happy with the way things are going now with me and my friend and I just continue to keep going at the pace we are and I will see how things go.
XOXO
1 comments:
I say, keep takin things one day at a time. You already know how you feel and can't noone tell you different. We can't tell you if its love, because only your heart knows that. Love can happen in one minute, true love at that. 9 months is not a short time and i'm sure you have spent a lot of time together or this post wouldn't be up. I think you should keep doin what you are doin and, to me, there is nothin wrong wit a man not wantin to be committed right now and wantin to focus on other important things. Its not like he is sayin he dont want a relationship cause he wants to play the field. I'm happy for you that you have found someone that makes you feel the way that you do. After so many BAD years, nothin but good years are in store for you mama.
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